Why It is Dangerous to Have a Beautiful Female Classmate!
Dating between boys and girls has been long standing issue since the creation of the universe and it’s the foundation of a beautiful life between couples as it creates a family. Some men are ruthless when it comes to choosing a female partner as they just concentrate on how beautiful and sexy she is without considering her behavior, religious condition, education and the likes. In this essay, we are going to discuss the problems of having a beautiful female classmate or colleague and how it creates certain challenges for both the individuals and others around them.
Whenever a man sees a very beautiful girl, there are things that biologically or naturally change in his body. Such changes include release of dopamine, increased heart rate, activation of reward centers, increased testosterone levels and heightened focus and attention. All of them are good as they are naturally happening, but the increased testosterone levels is dangerous because the man cannot control his feelings and tries to reach the girl any way possible. As a result, if a man has a beautiful classmate or colleague, many of his friends ask some information about her including her address, phone number, whether she has a partner, whether he can be introduced to her and so on. They may ask her about such information, but they ask you as a colleague or classmate. This problem continues as long as you are together and sometimes may be months and years.
All men are not equal as many of them search for a beautiful and a good wife to spend the rest of his time with her while others are all after the body of the girl. These are those whose testosterone levels guide their interest towards the girl. Some studies suggest that men may experience a temporary increase in testosterone levels when they are exposed to attractive women. Testosterone is a hormone associated with arousal and desire. Because of this, their interest vanishes if they don’t get what they want.
A few years ago, I used to have a very beautiful female classmate who attracts the attention of almost every man. Some men like my friends or others that we don’t even know each other asked me about her on weekly basis if not daily. Some were even saying that they would like to marry though they don’t know one percent about herself. Do you know the reason? It’s just about the increased testosterone levels following the first sight. I remember one of my friends said to me, ” I will invite you and her to a dinner at a four-star hotel. Then we can introduce to each other”. I told him that was a plan she could easily understand as we are only three. Then he tried to invite all of our classmates and things finally ended up in vain.
When a friend asks you for the address of a classmate, especially if the classmate is someone they find attractive, it’s important to approach the situation with caution and respect for everyone involved. Things to consider when handling this situation include respect privacy. The address or phone number of a person is considered sensitive personal information. It’s crucial to respect the girl’s privacy and not share their address without heir explicit consent. Also, before sharing any personal information, consider your friend’s intentions for wanting the classmate’s phone number, and make sure they have genuine and appropriate reasons for seeking this information. Moreover, ask your classmate or colleague whether you can share her number with someone else. But it is always better to encourage your friend or the man to approach the girl directly and ask for her contact information in a respectful manner. It’s important for your friend to seek the classmate’s permission first. Finally, try to protect personal Information of the girl. Sharing someone’s address without their consent can potentially lead to privacy concerns and discomfort for the classmate.
Men with very beautiful classmates and colleagues always have such problems as they are repeatedly asked sharing personal information mainly age, phone number and address of the girls with them. Even If you don’t consider the girl’s privacy, consent, or any other thing and just share her personal information including address and phone number, they will still tell her who gave the information. That moment is when you and the girl are no longer friends or siblings.
In summary, it’s important to prioritize the privacy and consent of the individual whose information is being requested. Encourage your friend to approach the classmate directly and respectfully if they are interested in establishing a connection. Open communication, respect for privacy, and setting clear boundaries are key when navigating such situations. On the other hand, the men whose testosterone levels are guiding them should change that behavior and seek a better way to choose a female partner.
Hamze Yassin
